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据瑞典的一位心理学家对一个六岁零三个月的孩子十个月的跟踪调查,在三百多天里,这个孩子光提出的非普通性问题,就达一千一百二十五个,平均每天将近四个。孩子每天都要给父母、兄长、好友出难题。在正常生活中,有些父母往往以极其随便的态度对待孩子的发问,甚至用“别瞎问”、“说你也不懂”呵斥他们。还有的父母竟然不耐烦地用自己胡诌八扯的假话去搪塞孩子的提问。高尔基在《论新与旧》一文中指出:“对于儿童的问题,如果只回答说:‘等一会,大起来就会懂’——这等于打消儿童的求知欲望。
According to a ten-month follow-up survey conducted by a Swedish psychologist on a six-year-old and a three-month-old child, the common problem raised by the child over three hundred days was 1,120 Five, an average of nearly four per day. Children every day to parents, brother, friends out of trouble. In normal life, some parents often treat their children’s questions in a very casual manner. They even scold them with “Do not blindly ask,” “say you do not understand.” There are still impatient parents with impatient to use their crap words to prevaricate children’s questions. In his article “On Oldness and Oldness,” Gorky pointed out: "If we only answer the question of children, ’wait for a while, understand for a long time’ - this amounts to dispelling the child’s desire for knowledge.