会玩的是好孩子

• 作 者: 洪恩
• 出 处: 好家长
• 发表日期: 2001年09期
• 关键词: 长最 小学低年级 使人 心理压力 成反比 侯喜 学在 社会压力

家长最爱对孩子说的一句话是:“你就知道玩,不知道学习。”许多家长把孩子玩儿看成是一种“错误”。有的家长下班回家看到刚刚玩了一小会儿的孩子,抛出的仍然是那句话:“就知道玩儿,不知道学。”接着就是:“回家赶紧做功课去!”如果孩子说“功课做完了”或者“今天没留作业”时,家长马上会说:“你不会好好看看书啊!”或者“你不会复习复习啊!”“你再做点补充练习去!”总之,这些家长是把孩子玩儿当成“大敌”去对待的。有的甚至公开说:“必须把孩子的时间都占领,叫他根本没有玩儿的功夫!”于是,孩子的下午、晚上时间全部被“占领”

Parents love to say to the child a sentence is: “You know play, do not know to learn.” Many parents see children playing as a “mistake.” Some parents go home from get off work to see the children who have just played for a short while and still throw the phrase: “I know playing, I do not know my school.” And then: “Go home and do homework!” If the child says “homework is done” or “no homework today”, the parents will immediately say “you will not take a good look at the book!” Or “you will not review the review!” “You do some supplementary exercises In short, these parents treat their children as ”enemies“. Some even openly said: ”You must occupy the child’s time, so he did not play Kung Fu!“ So, children’s afternoon, evening time were all ”occupied"