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家是一个世界。外边,又是一个世界,外边的世界很精彩,有春夏秋冬的景致,有形形色色的男人、女人。家的世界却常常是很无奈,恋爱时如胶似漆的情侣,表情一旦被定格、装框,再端挂在墙壁上,就变成了一种夫妻身份的影像证明,很少再被双方动心地欣赏了。柴米油盐的单调话题,乏味无聊的日子,模糊了“相看两不厌”的感觉,人的情感也渐渐向外边的世界亲近。很多夫妻在婚后,不仅保持着与原来的同性朋友交往,而且还明里暗里保持着与异性朋友的交往,结交新的异性朋友也成了一种新的渴望。
Home is a world. Outside, but also a world, the outside world is very exciting, there are the views of spring, summer, autumn and winter, all kinds of men and women. The world of the family is often very helpless, in love when the gluey couple, once the grid freeze frame, boxed, and then hung on the wall, it becomes a proof of the identity of a couple, and rarely be both enthusiastically appreciate It’s Monotonous topic of daily necessities, dull and boring days, blurred the “look at each other” feeling, human emotions are gradually getting closer to the outside world. After marriage, many couples not only maintain their contacts with their same-sex friends, but also secretly keep their contacts with opposite sex friends. Making new friends with the opposite sex has also become a new desire.