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(上回说到“小猪”告诉夏语冰批评还有一个关健是礼貌,让她大吃一惊……) 礼貌“讲礼貌是人际交往中的一条重要原则。‘礼貌’维护了交际者的自尊,保持了交际关系的融洽,”朱老师娓娓道来,“在言语行为中,礼貌分为两种,一种是礼貌的行为目的,一种是礼貌行为的方式。像祝贺、道谢、恭喜等言语行为,是对说话人有利的, 行为目的和行为方式都是礼貌的。像请求、警告、命令等言语行为,为的是让听话人服从自己的意志,行为目的是不礼貌的,但是行为方式可以讲礼貌。采取礼貌的行为方式可以让对方更容易接受不礼貌的行为目的。批评也是如此,如果不涉及大是大非问题,礼貌的批评才是最高级的批评。”“那怎么样才能使批评也变得礼貌起来呢?”夏语冰听得津津有味, 她觉得“小猪”讲得比王戈这个自大狂清楚多了。
(Last time, “Piggy” told Xia Yubing that there was also a key Guan Gong courtesy that surprised her...) Politeness “Politeness is an important principle in interpersonal communication. Politeness” maintains the communicators’ self-esteem and maintains them. The communicative relationship is harmonious,“ said Teacher Zhu. ”There are two types of politeness in speech act, one is the purpose of polite behavior, and the other is the manner of polite behavior. Like congratulations, thanks, congratulations and other words Behavior is beneficial to the speaker, and the purpose and behavior of the behavior are all polite.Speech acts such as requests, warnings, and orders serve to obey the will of the listener and the purpose of the action is impolite, but the way of action You can be polite. Taking polite behavior can make it easier for the other person to accept impolite behavior. The same is true of criticism. If you do not deal with issues of big or bad, polite criticism is the highest level of criticism.” “How can that be done? Has it become polite?” Xia Yubing listened with relish. She felt that “Little Pig” was much more arrogant than Wang Ge’s arrogance.