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话题来自日本的一个青少年研究所搞的一次调查。该研究所曾就“你心目中最崇敬的人物是谁”调查了包括中国在内的几个国家的中学生,其中,有的国家的中学生都将父母列入“最崇敬的人物”之前三名,而中国父母未能进入中学生“最崇敬的人物”的前十名。当然,这个调查并不能完全客观地反映和说明问题,我们也无需仅仅以此为依据去感叹、评论。但它至少可以使我们警醒——不能不承认在我们的现实生活中确有这样的事情:许多孩子很依恋自己的父母,依赖自己的父母,需要从父母那里获得各方面的帮助,然而,在内心里却并不怎么崇敬自己的父母,甚至十分轻视自己的父母。这的确是一种十分值得注意的现象。问题之一:面对孩子,父母要有人格的力量有一位女售货员做了母亲,谈笑间,她蛮有兴致地谈起她和丈夫对儿子未来的企盼:“嗐!反正咱也就是个卖苦力的,只要儿子将来不折进监狱,怎么着都行呵!”那一份无所谓的神态,
The topic came from a survey conducted by a Japanese youth institute. The Institute once asked “Who are you most admired characters?” Investigated middle school students in several countries, including China. Among them, some middle school students included their parents as “the most revered person ”The top three, while Chinese parents failed to enter the top ten “ Most Revered People ”top ten. Of course, this survey can not fully reflect and explain the issue objectively. We do not need to just sigh and comment on it. But at least it can awake us - we can not deny that there really is something in our real life: many children are attached to their parents, dependent on their parents, and need help from their parents in all aspects. However, But not how much reverence their parents, and even very contemptuous of their parents. This is indeed a very noteworthy phenomenon. One of the problems: the face of children, the power of parents to have a personality A saleswoman was a mother, laughing, she was very interesting to talk about her and her husband’s son’s future look forward to: “嗐! Anyway, we also A coolie, as long as his son will not break into the prison, how the line Oh! ”That indifferent demeanor,