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每次写专栏的时候,我都要犹豫很久,到底是写点儿高端的小文,还是接地气地回答读者的问题呢?前者书写生活格调情趣,后者莫过于谈论鸡毛蒜皮。然而,读者的鸡毛蒜皮对我来说都不是小事,那些年轻时候的困惑,和我曾经的是那么相似,若无人引导,便成燎原星火。我总是喜欢在深夜读那些读者的来信,一边读,一边回忆自己年少的时候。半年前,有个读者第一次来信,说她的朋友都嫌弃她太黏了,老是在背后说她的坏话,避着她,不喜欢跟她玩。她絮絮叨叨写了大概三页,有些字迹十分模糊,大约是写稿子的时候十分伤心,落了泪。
Every time I write a column, I have to hesitate for a long time, in the end is to write a little high-end essay, or graciously answer the reader’s question? The former writing style of life taste, the latter than talking about trivial. However, the triviality of the reader is not a trivial matter to me. The puzzled young people are so similar to what I used to be. If no one is to be guided, they will start a prairie fire. I always like to read those readers’ letters in the middle of the night while reading my memories of my own young age. Six months ago, a reader wrote a letter for the first time saying that her friend disliked her too much. She always said her bad words behind her and avoided her. She did not like to play with her. She wrote roughly about three pages, some of the writing was very vague, about writing the time is very sad, shed tears.