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大部分的人倾向于一种说法:婚前,要把双眼都睁开;婚后,睁一只眼、闭一只眼。到底睁开几只眼,才能把爱情看个清楚?实际上,不论你睁开几只眼,爱情,总应该有它的模糊地带。 如果深爱一个人,不应该认为必须依照和他生活的不同阶段,改变对他的要求标准,才可以和平而快乐地相处下去。其实,你应该想一想的是:这个“要求”是否恰当,而不应考虑如何在“标准”的高低上进行取合。婚前,你希望他时时刻刻对你
Most people tend to say the following: Before marriage, both eyes should be opened; after marriage, one eye, one eye closed. In the end opened a few eyes to see clearly love? In fact, no matter you open a few eyes, love, there should always be its fuzzy zone. If you love someone deeply, you should not think that you must change the standards of his life according to the different stages of his life before you can get along peacefully and happily. Actually, what you should think about is: Is this “requirement” appropriate, and should not consider how to match the “standard”. Before marriage, you want him to always be with you