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从我们这一代开始,很多男性都愿意参与育儿,只是不知该如何做。妈妈们应该多给爸爸参与的机会,给爸爸们犯错的空间,培养他们成为育儿的好拍档。我觉得,一个男人在成为父亲之前,一定要先考虑清楚自己将承担什么样的责任,为这份责任你应该如何作为。大儿子出生后,我就积极参与到养育过程之中,因为我想早日和孩子建立情感连接。第一时间抚摸他、拥抱他,坚持每天喂他一瓶牛奶。只要有时间,我就为孩子换尿片、洗澡,孩子们如厕也都是我训练出来的。
Starting from our generation, many men are willing to participate in parenting, just do not know how to do it. Moms should give more opportunities for dads to participate, give dads their mistakes, and train them to become good partners in parenting. In my opinion, before a man becomes a father, he must first consider clearly what kind of responsibilities he will take and how you should do this responsibility. After the eldest son was born, I actively involved in the process of parenting, because I want to establish emotional connection with the child as soon as possible. The first time touch him, hug him, insist on feeding him a bottle of milk every day. As long as there is time, I will change diapers for children, bathing, children are also my toilet out of training.