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主持人语先哲庄子曾说,圣人应有包容天地,遍及天下的宽阔胸怀。近代民族英雄林则徐则写下了“海纳百川,有容乃大”的格言。两位先贤都在告诉我们包容心是多么重要,可有不少家长在教育自己的孩子时却偏偏忘了这一点。常听到有的家长这么教孩子:“谁打你,你就打他!他打你一下,你就打他两下!”他们完全没有想到教孩子以牙还牙、睚眦必报的后果,那很可能让孩子变成一个斤斤计较、处事偏激、心胸狭窄的人。孩子成年后面对的世界是复杂的。只有具备包容的品质,才能接受新事物,容忍多元化的价值取向和他人的独特个性,才能适应不同的环境,处理好各种人际关系,融洽地与他人合作,充分发挥自己的潜能。因此,父母应当在孩子幼年时就注意培养孩子的包容心,引导孩子做一个心胸开阔、宽以待人的人。包容是一种心态,也是一种美德和境界,更是一种生存的智慧。为了你的孩子快乐幸福,请教他学会包容。
Moderator Zhuang Zi Xian Zhuang Zi once said that the saints should be inclusive and broad-minded throughout the world. Lin Zexu, a modern national hero, wrote the maxim that “all is well-tolerated.” Two sages are telling us how important it is to be tolerant, but quite a few parents forget this when educating their children. He often heard some parents teach their children: “Who hit you, you hit him! He beat you, you hit him twice!” They did not think of teaching children teeth, complacent consequences, it is likely Let the children become a preoccupied, extreme service, narrow-minded people. The world the child faces in adulthood is complex. Only with inclusive quality can we accept new things, tolerate diversified values and unique personalities of others to adapt to different environments, handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships, work with others harmoniously and give full play to their potential. Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children’s tolerance in their infancy and guide their children to be open-minded and broad-minded. Inclusion is a state of mind, but also a virtue and realm, but also a living wisdom. For your child happy and happy, ask him to learn to tolerate.