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1作为陈家媳妇,我最怕的事儿是给公公送钱。老公是留美的法学博士,大名鼎鼎的陈律师;公公是退休的高级工程师,不缺钱花的知识分子。按理说,给老人孝敬钱,皆大欢喜。然而,这事在我们家就变了味儿。老公与公公性格相似,内热外冷,不善表达情感。他们在外人面前能说会道、长袖善舞;与家人沟通却不经雕琢、直接粗暴。婆婆去世后,他们更如两只孤独的公兽,相处时总感别扭。大多数时候,他俩聚一起就喝闷酒,喝醉了也默默无声……
1 As Chen’s daughter-in-law, what I fear most is giving money to the father-in-law. Her husband is a doctor of law in the United States, the famous lawyer Chen; father-in-law is a retired senior engineer, no shortage of money for intellectuals. Logically, to honor the elderly money, are happy. However, it has changed in our home. Husband and father of similar personality, internal heat cold, poor expression of emotion. They can speak in front of outsiders, long-sleeved dance; communicate with their families without carving, direct and brutal. After her mother-in-law died, they were more like two lonely public beasts, and they always felt uncomfortable when they were living together. Most of the time, they both get nauseated and get drunk and silent ...