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我是一名公务员,今年43岁。最近,我工作压力非常大,经常失眠、头痛、心烦、焦虑,嗓门也越来越大,想骂人,有时因一点小事,就勃然大怒。我离异多年,有一个女儿,今年18岁,正念高三。我总是担心她考不上大学,经常对她说:“如果你考不上,可能只有当一个营业员。”我还担心她的安全,要求她走路要走大路,因为这个社会太复杂了。我女儿对此感到很烦,说我话多,还说我这样做反而给她心理压力,甚至认为我有心理问题,说我进入了更年期了,应该去找一下心理医生。我们为此还吵了一架,严重伤害了我们母女的感情我真不知是我的错还是我女儿的错。
I am a civil servant, 43 years old this year. Recently, my work pressure is very large, often insomnia, headache, upset, anxiety, my voice is also growing, want to curse, and sometimes because of a trivial matter, to rage. I have been divorced for many years, and I have a daughter, 18 years old, and a third year of righteous thoughts. I was always worried that she would not go to college and would often say to her: “If you do not pass the exam, you may only be a salesperson.” I was also worried about her safety and demanded that she walk the road because she was too complicated. My daughter was annoyed by this and said more than me. I also said that instead of giving her psychological pressure, she even thought I had a psychological problem and said that I had entered menopause and should find a psychiatrist. We have also quarreled for this, seriously hurt the feelings of our mother and daughter I really do not know my fault or my daughter’s fault.