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我校儿童中,一个一年级的孩子曾经很天真的告诉老师:‘我淘气,学习的不好,没有关係;我爸爸小时候比我还淘气呢?他更不好好念书啊!’教师问他:‘谁告诉你的?’他说:‘我祖母’。六年级有一个孩子本来很聪明,成绩是可以毕业的。但期中考试后发现他成绩退步,并且不念书也不做功课了。原因是他的家长告诉他:‘不要紧,你年纪还小,毕不了业就再留级一年吧!’于是他就索兴连功课都不做了。有一个孩子向家长讲特务如何可恶,反革命份子应当枪斃时,家长说:‘小孩子可别乱说,反正谁来了就说谁好,我比你懂的多的多!’孩子们因此便发生了疑问:‘这到底是怎么回事呢?教师这样讲,妈妈又那样说,到底谁说的对呢?’但是另外有一个孩子向家长宣传以后,他爸爸说:‘说的对!去给你妈妈讲讲去!’妈妈便每天向孩子要求:‘来给我讲讲吧!我在家里什么也不知道!’我们的儿童就在这种不同的家庭教育影响下产生了不同的反应。有的学习不好了,但有的却学习的更好,更有信心和勇气去力求进步了。
One of our school children, a first-year child was naive to tell the teacher: 'I am naughty, poor learning, it does not matter; my dad was naughty than I am when he was even better to study hard!' The teacher asked him: 'Who told you?' He said: 'My grandmother.' The sixth grade has a child who is very clever, the result is graduated. However, after the midterm examination, he found his grades regressed and he did not study or did his homework. The reason is that his parents told him:'It does not matter, you are young, you can not finish the job to stay on for another year! 'So he did not even make a trip to Suoxing. When a child tells parents how to be a spy agent and a counter-revolutionary should be shot, his parents said: 'Children should not talk nonsense anyway, whoever says who is better, I know more than you!' There was a question: 'What the hell is going on? Teacher said so, Mom said again, exactly who said right?' But there is another child to parents after the propaganda, his father said: 'That's right! Go talk to your mom! 'Mom asked the kids everyday:' Let me know! I do not know anything at home! 'Our children have had different effects under the influence of this different family education reaction. Some study bad, but others learn better, more confident and courage to progress.