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一天晚上我到一亲戚家里串门,当我询问她的孩子在幼儿园的情况时,她即责怪孩子:“他今天被老师批评呢,说他上音乐课不专心听,东张西望,还和别的小朋友讲话。”妈妈话音刚落,孩子马上申辩:“这个教室我没去过。”小孩言下之意是说他以前没到过这个教室,所以要左看右看,问问其他小朋友,而并非不留心听课。他对老师的批评还不服气呢。我对他的不服气颇感同情。心理学知识告诉我们未经验过的新奇事物,很容易引起人们的注意。而幼儿的自我控制能力较差,更容易为新鲜事物所吸引。每个陌生的环境或事物,在他们眼里都是新鲜的东西。
One night I went to a kin home and when I asked her child about kindergarten she blamed the child: “Today he was criticized by the teacher, saying he did not listen attentively to the music class, looked aside, and other children Speech. ”Mother voice went away, the child immediately pleaded:“ I have not been to this classroom. ”The child implied meaning is that he had not been to this classroom before, so look left and right to ask other children, not Do not pay attention to lectures. His criticism of the teacher is not convinced yet. I am quite sympathetic to his displeasure. Psychological knowledge tells us the inexperienced novelty, it is easy to draw people’s attention. Children with poor self-control are more likely to be attracted to something new. Every unfamiliar environment or thing, in their eyes are all new things.