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  Penelope: Hey, Sebastian! ①Glad to see you’re still kicking!
  Sebastian: Hi, Penelope. What’s that supposed to mean?
  Penelope: I’m just glad your new job hasn’t done you in. ②You’ve been kind of off the radar lately, so we all assumed you were in over your head at the new company. Sebastian: Well, kind of. But I’m still alive and well; it’s nothing I can’t handle!
  Penelope: ③That’s the spirit! So, what’s it like? Is the new boss a slave driver?
  Sebastian: Hardly. She’s pretty relaxed about working styles, as long as everyone meets the deadlines.
  Penelope: She sounds reasonable. If she’s not the problem, then it must be the workload that’s got you down. Did they load you down with projects right off the bat?
  Sebastian: Not at all. ④They’re letting me get my feet wet with some small projects, so I can really ease into the new position.
  Penelope: Then I’m 1)stumped. Why have you been 2)bummed about the new job?
  Sebastian: It actually has nothing to do with the job itself. I’ve just been trying to figure out how to fit in with my new co-workers.
  Penelope: ⑤I never would have guessed! You’re such an 3)upbeat guy, it’s hard to imagine you’d have a problem fitting in.
  Sebastian: It’s never been a problem before, but this office culture is different from my last job. They’re a lot more negative. Penelope: I’m surprised. From what you’ve said, the work environment seems pretty relaxed. Why would there be a negative 4)vibe?
  Sebastian: I don’t think they’re actually bad people, but many of them really like to gossip.
  Penelope: ⑥You mean, they like to talk about people behind their backs?
  Sebastian: Yep. Co-workers, clients, even the boss. It seems like every time they take a smoke break, they pick someone else to criticize.
  Penelope: I can imagine. All your co-workers standing around 5)dissing people, and you standing off to the side, not saying a word.
  Sebastian: That’s right!
  Penelope: Well, is that so bad? If they want to be rude, you can let them. Don’t feel the need to sink down to their level.
  Sebastian: I mostly agree with you. But the problem is, if I don’t start gossiping with them soon, I’ll end up with a reputation as the anti-social new guy.
  Penelope: Ah, now I can see where you’re coming from. No matter who they are, your co-workers are still your co-workers, and a good rapport is important.   Sebastian: Bingo. So what can I do?
  Penelope: ⑦Well, in my humble opinion, I think you’re doing it half-right already. There’s no need to pick up other people’s bad habits. Always follow your own moral compass instead of sacrificing your ideals just to fit in.
  Sebastian: I wholeheartedly agree. So how can I do that?
  Penelope: It won’t be easy, but I think you can do it. If they don’t want to talk about anything other than gossip, see if you can start some conversations about something else.
  Sebastian: That will be hard, especially since I don’t know them very well yet.
  Penelope: You don’t have to do it with everyone all at once. You can start one-on-one. After you get a feel for who they are, then you can start conversations about their interests.
  Sebastian: That’s not a bad idea. Maybe it’s the group 6)dynamic that’s the problem, not the individuals.
  Penelope: Almost certainly! Hey, it’s time for me to go. Good luck, and let me know how it goes!
  Sebastian: Sure thing! See you later!
  佩内洛普:嘿,塞巴斯蒂安!很高兴看到你活得好好的!
  塞巴斯蒂安:嗨,佩内洛普。你这是什么意思?
  佩内洛普:很高兴你的新工作没把你搞垮。你最近都不知所踪,所以我们猜想新公司让你忙得焦头烂额。
  塞巴斯蒂安:好吧,是有点。但是我还活得好好的;事情还在我掌控之中!
  佩内洛普:这就对了!那么,新公司怎么样?新老板是个压榨机吗?
  塞巴斯蒂安:她不是。她对工作的方式很放宽,只要每个人都能在截止日期前完成工作就行。
  佩内洛普:那她听起来挺人性化的。如果不是她的问题,那肯定是工作压力把你弄垮了。他们马上就让你接手一大堆的项目吗?
  塞巴斯蒂安:没有。他们让我着手一些小的项目,所以我可以真正轻松地进入新环境。
  佩内洛普:那我就不明白了。你为什么还为新工作而烦恼呢?
  塞巴斯蒂安:其实根本与工作无关。我一直在想如何才能融入到我的新同事当中去。
  佩内洛普:我真的没想到!你是那么欢乐的一个人,很难想象你不能融入他们。
  塞巴斯蒂安:这从前不是个问题,但是这个办公室的氛围跟我上一家公司的不同。他们会更消极些。
  佩内洛普:我很惊讶。据你所说,你的工作环境看起来很放松,为什么会有消极的氛围呢?
  塞巴斯蒂安:我不认为他们是坏人,只是他们很多人都喜欢八卦。
  佩内洛普:你的意思是,他们喜欢在别人背后说闲话?
  塞巴斯蒂安:对。同事、客户甚至老板。他们每次都在抽口烟的时间挑个人来挖苦。
  佩内洛普:我能想象得到。你所有的同事都站在一起贬损别人,而你却站在一旁无话可说。
  塞巴斯蒂安:就是这样!
  佩内洛普:嗯,这不好吗?如果他们要对别人无礼,你就随他们去好了。没必要认为自己也要降低到他们的水平。
  塞巴斯蒂安:我大致同意你的看法。但问题是,如果我不开始跟他们一起八卦,就会变成那个不合群的新人。
  佩内洛普:啊,我现在明白你的意思了。不管他们是谁,你的同事就是你的同事,把关系搞好很重要。
  塞巴斯蒂安:对。那么我该怎么做呢?
  佩内洛普:好吧,依我看,我觉得你已经做对了一半。没必要去挑别人的坏毛病。你应该遵循自己的道德准则,而不是为了融入同事而牺牲它。
  塞巴斯蒂安:我完全同意。那么我该怎么办呢?
  佩内洛普:这真的不简单,但是我相信你能做到。如果他们除了八卦就什么也不想聊,看看你能不能展开一些别的话题。
  塞巴斯蒂安:那真的很难,因为我还不够了解他们。
  佩内洛普:你不用马上对每个人都这样。你可以一个接一个来。当你了解他们后,就能发起他们感兴趣的话题。
  塞巴斯蒂安:这个主意不赖。也许这是群体驱动力问题,不关个人的事。
  佩内洛普:这是肯定的!嘿,我该走了。祝你好运,告诉我事情发展得怎样!
  塞巴斯蒂安:一定会!再见!CS
   Smart Sentences
  ① Glad to see you’re still kicking! 很高兴看到你活得好好的!
  still kicking: active and well, well and healthy(活蹦乱跳,照旧活跃)。例如:   —How is Bill since his stroke last year?
  比尔去年中风之后,现况如何?
  —Oh, he’s still kicking.
  噢,他还活得好好的。
  ② You’ve been kind of off the radar lately, so we all assumed you were in over your head at the new company.你最近都不知所踪,所以我们猜想新公司让你忙得焦头烂额。
  off the radar: be forgotten or ignored(被忘记,不被留意)。例如:
  Lily has locked herself in the lab to work on the new materials and has been off the radar.
  莉莉把自己关在实验室里,忙着研究新材料,渐渐淡出了人们的视线。
  in over sb.’s head: a situation is too busy or difficult for sb. to handle(太忙/难,无法承受)。例如:
  I’ve been in over my head all summer, working on my thesis.
  这个暑假我为论文忙昏了头。
  ③ That’s the spirit! 这就对了!
  That’s the spirit: used to express approval of the other’s attitude and energy, same as “That is the right attitude.”(表达对对方态度和干劲的赞许,等同于“That is the right attitude”)。例如:
  —I’ve decided not to worry about the final result and just try my best at the speech competition.
  我已经决定不再纠结最终的结果,而是在演讲比赛中尽力而为。
  —That’s the spirit.
  这就对了!
  ④ They’re letting me get my feet wet with some small projects, so I can really ease into the new position. 他们让我着手一些小的项目,所以我可以真正轻松地进入新环境。
  get one’s feet wet: get a little first-time experience with sth.(开始参与,初试)。例如:
  You can’t blame him for the not-so-perfect report. He’s hardly got his feet wet yet.
  你可不能为他不那么完美的报告责怪他,他才刚刚开始呢。
  ⑤ I never would have guessed!我真的没想到!
  I never would have guessed: used to express surprise(用以表达意外)。例如:
  I heard Wendy was let go because of the accident. I never would have guessed it.我听说韵迪因为那场事故被解雇,我怎么也不会想到是这种结果。
  ⑥You mean, they like to talk about people behind their backs? 你的意思是,他们喜欢在别人背后说闲话?
  behind sb.’s back: sth. is done without sb. knowing about it(背地里)。例如:
  Amy loves to talk about her co-workers behind their backs.
  艾米喜欢在背后议论同事。
  ⑦ Well, in my humble opinion, I think you’re doing it half-right already. 好吧,依我看,我觉得你已经做对了一半。
  in my humble opinion: a phrase introducing the speaker’s opinion(按愚见,据鄙人之见)。例如:
  In my humble opinion, we really need to buy a new printer instead of endlessly repairing the old one.
  依我之见,我们应该买台新的打印机,而不是没完没了地修那台旧的。

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