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儿子大一时,我平生第一次收到他送的生日礼物。这个礼物很有创意,是一封刻在竹简上的信。儿子在信中回忆了他小时候我们母子在狭小的家中度过的快乐时光,然后是这样一段话:“在成长的过程中,我最感激的是您给了我一个非常自由的成长空间,让我能够在宽松的环境下学会独立面对和处理很多事情。”这段话让我很是感慨了一番。从儿子4岁起,我和他就开始了单亲生活,这中间自然经历了种种辛苦与不易。我以为儿子在长大懂事之后,最感激的会是我对他的辛苦付出,但我显然想错了。看来父母的想象和期望与孩子真
When my son was fresh, I received my first birthday gift for him. This gift is very creative, is a letter engraved on the bamboo. In the letter, my son recalled the happy hour that his mother and son had spent in a small home when he was young. Then he said: “In the process of growing up, I am most grateful you gave me a very free space for growth. So that I can learn to deal with many things independently and in a relaxed environment. ”" I was feeling a lot with this passage. Since my son was 4 years old, he and I have started single-parent life, which naturally experienced all kinds of hard work and not easy. I thought my son would be most grateful to me when I grew up and sensible, but I obviously missed it. It seems parents’ imagination and expectation are real with their children