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应该说,家长孩子同吃一锅饭,同坐一张桌,是一个交流思想、倾吐心曲、沟通情感的好机会。良好的“餐桌文化”氛围,可使家人情绪放松,对孩子的生活和学习,都会产生积极的作用。可像我们这样,饭碗一端上手,便喋喋不休,不是对孩子学习成绩不理想横加指责;就是对他的活动刨根问底,这样,势必扰乱孩子的生理和心理状态。《论语·乡党》说“食不语”、“食勿言。”从生理角度看,吃饭时专心致志,既可品尝食物的味道,又可增进食欲,利于胃、胰、胆等脏器消化液的分泌,有助于食物的消化吸收。如果家长一味地在进餐时对孩子絮叨责备,使孩子心不在食,食不知味,食欲不振,容易诱发孩子生理上的疾病。长
It should be said that parents and children eat a pot of rice, sitting together at a table, is a good idea to exchange ideas, heart song, emotional communication. Good “table culture” atmosphere, emotional relaxation can make the family, children’s life and learning, will have a positive effect. Can be like us, one end of the job bowl, they chatter endless, not on the child’s academic performance is not ideal cross accusations; is to ask his activities, in this case, it is bound to disrupt the child’s physical and mental state. “Analects · Hsiang Tung” said “food is not language,” “Do not eat.” From a physiological point of view, to concentrate on food, not only taste the taste of food, but also increase appetite, which will help stomach, pancreas, gall and other organs digestion Fluid secretion, help digestion and absorption of food. If parents blindly blame the children when they eat, so that children do not eat, I do not know the taste, loss of appetite, easy to induce physical child disorders. long