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谈起婚后生活的感受,有些夫妻会认为:再也没有从前那样迷人。特别是双方经过激烈冲突之后,他或她更恨不得离开对方。然而,一旦双方真有较长一段时间的分离,又会不由自主地怀念起对方的长处或夫妻共同度过的美好时光。这种夫妻之间大都存在感情基础,面对过去美好生活的回忆,也就自然结成了夫妻之间难以割断的感情纽带。从心理学的角度来说,‘回忆’就是生活留在我们‘大脑皮层上的兴奋痕迹的恢复’。没有回忆的生活是枯燥的,而生活的枯燥又常常是因为我们不善于去回忆。
Talking about the feeling of married life, some couples will think: no longer so charming. Especially after the two sides have fiercely clashed, he or she is more anxious to leave each other. However, once the two sides really have a long period of separation, they will not help but miss each other’s strengths or the good times the couple spend together. Most of these couples exist between the emotional basis, in the face of past memories of good life, it naturally formed between the couple is difficult to cut off the emotional bond. From a psychological point of view, ’memories’ are the restoration of the traces of life that remain in our cortex. Life without memories is boring, and the boring life is often because we are not good at recalling.