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我女儿原本是一个活泼开朗的姑娘。但上幼儿园以后,她好像换了一个人。一天,放学以后我接她出来,她和一个要好的同学一起玩着,远远地看见班上的老师,两个孩子一起跑向老师。跑了一会儿,我女儿突然停下来躲在一个旮旯里,只是看着老师和跑上去的同学。尽管我们知道她是喜欢老师的,可是我常常发现她总是在躲避老师,比如老师过来摸摸她,她会往后缩或者把头扭到一边。不知道她这算不算一种退缩行为。老师还说她自制力也很强,她要做错什么事,老师一般都不敢太直接批评她,怕她太敏感。在家里也是这样,如果晚上她要吃糖,我们跟她说,晚上不能吃糖,否则牙会坏的。她说我只吃一颗就不吃了,并且真的只吃一颗。还有,她不到1岁的时候,有那么几天,她晚上睡一段时间后总是哭。有一天她爸爸受不了了,冲着她吼了一句,“别哭了,你哭什么呀!”她突然止住了哭,真的使劲憋住。我很奇怪这么小的孩子怎么会有这么强的控制能力?
My daughter was originally a cheerful girl. But after kindergarten, she seemed to change a person. One day after school, I picked her up and she was playing with a good classmate. I saw the teacher in the class afar, and the two children ran to the teacher together. After a short while, my daughter suddenly stopped to hide in a shy, just looking at the teacher and running classmates. Although we know she likes the teacher, but I often find that she is always avoiding her teacher, for example, a teacher comes to touch her, she will retract or turn her head aside. I do not know if she is a retreat. The teacher also said she is also self-restraint, and she has to do something wrong. The teacher generally dares not criticize her too much for fear of being too sensitive. The same is true at home, if she wants to eat sugar at night, we told her that at night, can not eat sugar, or teeth will be bad. She said I ate only eat one, and really only eat one. Also, when she was less than 1 year old, she spent a few days crying after she slept at night. One day her father can not stand it, shouted at her, “Do not cry, what are you crying!” She suddenly stopped crying, really hard hold. I wonder how such a small child can have such a strong ability to control?