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教育家陶行知先生早在半个世纪前就指出:教育孩子的全部秘密在于相信孩子和解放孩子。而相信孩子、解放孩子首先要赏识孩子。赏识就是认识到一个人的才能并予以重视或赞扬。幼儿教育家陈鹤琴先生说:“小孩子是喜欢鼓励的。”尊重孩子,欣赏孩子,不仅仅是因为他们年龄小,需要关心和爱护,更重要的原因是他们从出生起就是一个独立的个体,有自己独立的意志和个性。但是,孩子毕竟是孩子,他们的自我评价能力还很弱,他们常常把家长的评价作为自我评价的重要依据,因而家长的赏识对提高他们的自信心有极其重要的作用。
As early as half a century ago, educator Tao Xingzhi pointed out: The whole secret of educating children lies in believing and liberating their children. And believe in children, liberate children first to appreciate children. Appreciation is the recognition of a person’s talent and to be valued or commended. Child care activist Chen Heqin said: “Children like to be encouraged.” Respecting children and appreciating children is not only because they are young and need care and love. The more important reason is that they have been an independent individual since birth, Have their own independent will and personality. However, children are children after all. Their self-evaluation ability is still very weak. They often regard parents ’evaluation as an important basis for self-evaluation. Therefore, parents’ appreciation plays an extremely important role in enhancing their self-confidence.