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Never say you have failed until you have reached your last attempt, and never say it’s your last attempt until you have succeeded. 绝不承认失败，除非你尽了最后的努力；绝不说尽了最后的努力，除非你成功了。
Don’t waste time worrying about what you can’t control. 别浪费时间想那些改变不了的事了。
Can the direction of a person’s eyes reveal whether or not they are making a truthful statement? Short answer: sort ofsort of：可能，有那么点儿。. But, it isn’t as simple as some recent television shows or movies make it seem.
In these shows a detective will deduce if a person is being untruthful simply because they looked to the left or right while making a statement.
In reality, it would be foolish to make such a snap judgment without further investigation but the technique does have some merit.
The first time “Visual Accessing Cues” were discussed was by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in their book “Frogs into Princes: Neuro Linguistic Programming ” From their experiments this is what they found.
（from your viewpoint, looking at them）
Up and to the Left Up and to the Right
Indicatesindicate：表明；象征；暗示。: Visually Constructed Images（Vc）
If you asked someone to “Imagine a purple buffalobuffalo：水牛。” this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Visually Constructed” a purple buffalo in their mind.
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images（Vr）
If you asked someone to “What color was the first house you lived in?”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Visually Remembered” the color of their childhood home.
To the Left To the Right
Indicates: Auditoryauditory：耳朵的；听觉的。 Constructed（Ac）
If you asked someone to “Try and create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Auditorily Constructed” this this sound that they have never heard of.
Indicates: Auditory Remembered（Ar）
If you asked someone to “Remember what their mother’s voice sounds like ”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Auditorily Remembered” this sound.
Down and to the LeftDown and to the Right
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic kinesthetic：动觉的。（F）
If you asked someone to “Can you remember the smell of a campfire?”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.
Indicates: Internal Dialog（Ai）
This is the direction of someone’s eyes as they “talk to themselves”.
How this information is used to detect lies:
Example: Let’s say your child asks you for a cookie, and you ask: “Well, what did your mother say?” As they reply “Mom said…yes.” they look to the left. This would indicate a made up answer as their eyes are showing a constructed image or sound. Looking to the right would indicated a “remembered” voice or image, and thus would be telling the truth.
Every moment of where you’ve been prepared you for where you're going. 你所经历过的每一刻都让你为下一刻做好了准备。
Follow the music of your heart and dance in the freedom of not caring what other people think of you.
跟随内心的曲调，翩翩起舞，不要去管别人怎么想。
Notes
*A typical lefthanded person would have the opposite meanings for their eyedirections.
*As with other signs of lying, you should first establish and understand a person’s basebehavior before concluding they are lying by the direction of their eyes.
潜意识也称无意识，是指那些在正常情况下根本不能变为意识的东西，比如，内心深处被压抑而无从意识到的欲望。正是所谓“冰山理论”：人的意识组成就像一座冰山，露出水面的只是一小部分（意识），但隐藏在水下的绝大部分却对其余部分产生影响（无意识）。弗洛伊德认为无意识具有能动作用，它主动地对人的性格和行为施加压力和影响。弗洛伊德在探究人的精神领域时运用了决定论的原则，认为事出必因。看来微不足道的事情，如做梦、口误和笔误，都是由大脑中潜在原因决定的，只不过是以为一种伪装的形式表现出来。由此，弗洛伊德提出关于无意识精神状态的假设，将意识划分为三个层次：意识，前意识和无意识。
Don’t waste time worrying about what you can’t control. 别浪费时间想那些改变不了的事了。
Can the direction of a person’s eyes reveal whether or not they are making a truthful statement? Short answer: sort ofsort of：可能，有那么点儿。. But, it isn’t as simple as some recent television shows or movies make it seem.
In these shows a detective will deduce if a person is being untruthful simply because they looked to the left or right while making a statement.
In reality, it would be foolish to make such a snap judgment without further investigation but the technique does have some merit.
The first time “Visual Accessing Cues” were discussed was by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in their book “Frogs into Princes: Neuro Linguistic Programming ” From their experiments this is what they found.
（from your viewpoint, looking at them）
Up and to the Left Up and to the Right
Indicatesindicate：表明；象征；暗示。: Visually Constructed Images（Vc）
If you asked someone to “Imagine a purple buffalobuffalo：水牛。” this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Visually Constructed” a purple buffalo in their mind.
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images（Vr）
If you asked someone to “What color was the first house you lived in?”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Visually Remembered” the color of their childhood home.
To the Left To the Right
Indicates: Auditoryauditory：耳朵的；听觉的。 Constructed（Ac）
If you asked someone to “Try and create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Auditorily Constructed” this this sound that they have never heard of.
Indicates: Auditory Remembered（Ar）
If you asked someone to “Remember what their mother’s voice sounds like ”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they “Auditorily Remembered” this sound.
Down and to the LeftDown and to the Right
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic kinesthetic：动觉的。（F）
If you asked someone to “Can you remember the smell of a campfire?”, this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.
Indicates: Internal Dialog（Ai）
This is the direction of someone’s eyes as they “talk to themselves”.
How this information is used to detect lies:
Example: Let’s say your child asks you for a cookie, and you ask: “Well, what did your mother say?” As they reply “Mom said…yes.” they look to the left. This would indicate a made up answer as their eyes are showing a constructed image or sound. Looking to the right would indicated a “remembered” voice or image, and thus would be telling the truth.
Every moment of where you’ve been prepared you for where you're going. 你所经历过的每一刻都让你为下一刻做好了准备。
Follow the music of your heart and dance in the freedom of not caring what other people think of you.
跟随内心的曲调，翩翩起舞，不要去管别人怎么想。
Notes
*A typical lefthanded person would have the opposite meanings for their eyedirections.
*As with other signs of lying, you should first establish and understand a person’s basebehavior before concluding they are lying by the direction of their eyes.
潜意识也称无意识，是指那些在正常情况下根本不能变为意识的东西，比如，内心深处被压抑而无从意识到的欲望。正是所谓“冰山理论”：人的意识组成就像一座冰山，露出水面的只是一小部分（意识），但隐藏在水下的绝大部分却对其余部分产生影响（无意识）。弗洛伊德认为无意识具有能动作用，它主动地对人的性格和行为施加压力和影响。弗洛伊德在探究人的精神领域时运用了决定论的原则，认为事出必因。看来微不足道的事情，如做梦、口误和笔误，都是由大脑中潜在原因决定的，只不过是以为一种伪装的形式表现出来。由此，弗洛伊德提出关于无意识精神状态的假设，将意识划分为三个层次：意识，前意识和无意识。