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人际空间,也就是指人与人在社会交往中所保持的距离。而这种距离是充满防御性和暗示感的。我们都曾犯过类似强占别人的座位或未经许可踏人别人的房间这样的错误,后果有时是遭到一顿数落、一段时间的冷待,有时甚至使对方产生一个先人为主的恶劣印象,由此引来一种关系的结束。出现这些问题,原因就在于,我们忽视了空间——这个重要的社交密码。人类是领域意识极强的动物,在混沌之初,原始人群就懂得不惜生命去开辟和占有属于自己的荒原或山林,并以守护这片领地为毕生的职责。在现代人与人的互动关系中,人们
Interpersonal space, that is, the distance people keep in social interaction. And this distance is full of defensive and hint. We’ve all had the mistakes of occupying someone’s seat or moving someone’s room without permission, sometimes with the consequences of being overwhelmed, over time, sometimes making the other person a predominantly abusive Impression, which leads to the end of a relationship. These problems arise because of the neglect of space - an important social passcode. Human beings are highly domain conscious animals. At the beginning of the chaos, the primitive people know how to open up and occupy their own wasteland or mountain forests at their own expense and take the responsibility of guarding the territory for their entire lives. In the interaction between modern people, people