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“对不起”确实是最难说出口的几个字。一些研究人的焦虑情绪的心理学家表示,道歉时一定要慎重,不要操之过急。根据他们的计算结果,最好在失言后的10分钟到两天内向生你气的“受害人”承认错误。一些研究道歉时间的人员相信,在表达自己歉意的时间选择上应该有一个最佳时机。他们将这个时刻称之为“道歉成熟期”。道歉太早别人会认为你在采取防御措施以防止你的“受害人”生你的气而对你实施报复;如果时间
“Sorry” is really the most difficult words to say. Some psychologists who study people’s anxiety say they must be careful when apologizing and do not rush too quickly. Based on their calculations, it is best to admit mistakes to the “victim” who is angry at you within 10 minutes to two days of losing your voice. Some people who study the apology time believe that there should be a best time to choose the time to express their apologies. They call this moment “apology maturity.” Apologies too soon Someone else will think you are retaliation against you if you take defensive measures to keep your “victim” from being angry with you; if time