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谈话艺术初探在追求女孩子诸多行动中,应该是最重要的一项了吧。谈话涉及面很广,包括与女孩子本人交谈,与女孩子的同事或同学交谈,与潜在竞争对手交谈,与女孩子的家人交谈等等。若想取得良好的效果,就要讲究谈话的艺术,从而把恋爱进行得更加尽善尽美。下面从谈话的类型、谈话前的准备、谈话的形式以及男孩的素质等诸方面作些探讨。一.谈话的类型: (一) 君子型谈话:(一般适用于有点冷傲、比较矜持的女孩子) 所谓君子型谈话,顾名思义是指把自己看作系出名门的君子,把谈话的对象当作与之相配的淑女。谈话时双方处于完全平等的地位,促膝交谈。君子型谈话的核心是讲究一个“真”字,对女孩
The first talk of art in the pursuit of many girls act, it should be the most important one. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including talking to girls themselves, talking to girls colleagues or classmates, talking to potential competitors, talking to girls’ families, and so on. If you want to achieve good results, we must pay attention to the art of conversation, so love is more perfect. The following discussion from the type of conversation, pre-conversation preparation, the form of conversation and the quality of the boy to make some discussions. First, the type of conversation: (a) gentleman-type talk: (generally applies to a little arrogant, more reserved girl) The so-called gentleman-type conversation, as the name suggests refers to himself as a well-known gentleman, the object of conversation as Match the ladies. During the conversation, the two sides are in an entirely equal position and promote dialogue. The heart of a gentleman’s conversation is stressing on a “true” word for a girl