别让逆反心理误了你

• 作 者: 晓朱
• 出 处: 好家长
• 发表日期: 2001年01期
• 关键词: 张文同 数学老师 文老师 课外书 心理现象 批评教育 教育目标 信息刺激 偏离目标 目标方向

张文同学: 听你说,班主任常要你莫迟到,莫早退,有事请假,上课专心等;语文老师、数学老师常要你学习多下苦功,多动脑筋,按时、认真完成作业等;父母常要你少看电视,少看课外书,自己的事自己做等。开始,这些话你也能听。可后来,越听越不想听,越听越心烦,越反感,以至糊里糊涂起来……你知道是什么导致你“不想听”、“心烦”、“糊里糊涂”的呢?原来,是一种消极的心理现象——逆反心理在作怪。

Zhang Wen students: listen to you, the teacher often want you to be late, Mo early retirement, leave of absence, class concentration, etc .; language teachers, math teachers often require you to learn more hard work, more brains, on time and meticulous homework; parents Often want you to watch less TV, less extracurricular books, their own business to do so. At the beginning, you can listen to these words too. But later, the more you listen to the less, the more you listen to the more upset, the more disgusted, and even confused ...... You know what led you to “do not want to hear,” “upset,” “confused” it turned out to be A Negative Psychological Phenomenon - Rebellious Psychology at Work.