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当今社会,独生子女心理闭塞个性乖张的孤独自闭倾向颇为严重。比如,他们尽管一人在家感到寂寞,却又对大人爱答不理,觉得没有共同语言,不乐意同父母谈心交流;也不愿意与周围邻里的长辈交往,更不喜欢参加集体活动;偶尔与人来往或参与集体活动,也会表现得很不自然很不投入,甚至还会手足无措心理紧张;另一方面,许多独生子女还有称王称霸独占独享等不良心理和行为,这也同样让他们的伙伴及长辈难以接受。中国少年儿童素质状况2002年最新抽样调查显示,独生子女与父母玩的时间只占5%,独自玩的时间达40%。青少年心理咨询热线对数万个个例统计分析表明,人际沟通障碍在青少年心理问题中所占比例最大,为18%,青少年人格缺陷及心理障碍问题占16%。
In present-day society, the one-child psychological blockage personality perverse lonely autistic tendency is quite serious. For example, even though one of them feels lonely at home but does not care about adults, they feel that they have no common language and are not willing to talk to their parents or associate with their elders in their neighborhood, or even less like to participate in group activities. On the other hand, many only-child children also have the unpleasant psychology and behaviors such as lordly domination, which also make them The partners and elders are hard to accept. According to the latest sample survey on the quality of children and adolescents in China in 2002, only children took only 5% of their time with their parents and spent 40% of their time playing alone. The statistical analysis of tens of thousands of cases by the Youth Psychological Counseling Hotline shows that interpersonal communication disorder has the largest proportion of adolescent psychological problems, accounting for 18%. Adolescents’ personality defects and psychological problems account for 16%.