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编辑同志: 我们的独生儿子从小在他姨外婆家带养,快上小学时才回到我们身边。找们俩都特别疼爱他,从来没有打骂过他。可他就是对我们不太亲。他有些不讲卫生的习惯。我们有时提醒提醒他,可他总是噘着小嘴不说话,流露出不服气的神气。平时,他还老嚷嚷着寒暑假要到姨外婆家去玩。难道在别人家寄养过的孩子都会对父母不亲吗? 我们应该怎么办呢? 陂西陈永明甄小梅陈永明、甄小梅同志: 你们提出的问题带有一定的普遍性,应该解决。我试着写下面几点作为回答,希望得到你们的指正。第一,孩子变换环境时,教育措施要跟上。你们把孩子送到亲戚家带养,现在又将孩子接回到自己的身边,对孩子来说,突出的感觉是环境发生
Editor: Our only son grew up in his aunt’s grandmother, and returned to us as soon as he was in elementary school. Find them both are particularly fond of him, never scolded him. But he is not very close to us. He has some non-hygienic habits. We sometimes remind him to remind him, but he always pouting his mouth does not speak, showing the unconvincing air of the air. Usually, he always clamored to go to the aunt grandmother summer and winter holidays to play. Is it true that children who have been fostered by other people will not be close to their parents? What should we do? Xiyi Chen Yongming Chen Yongming and Zhen Xiaomei: The issues you raised have certain universality and should be solved. I try to write the following points in reply, hoping to get your correction. First, when children change their environment, educational measures should be kept up. When you bring your child to a relative and bring it back, you now bring the child back to you, and for your child, the prominent feeling is that the environment is happening