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妈妈让孩子安静呆一会,她要给朋友打电话,“静一点,别说话,我一会儿给你买冰淇淋。” 这种奖励方法用起来得心应手,不需费脑筋、费口舌,当时又十分有效。妈妈用奖励来刺激孩子与她合作,其实孩子并不需要贿赂,不需要用这种交换的方式使自己转变成一个好孩子。从本性上他们自己是要做好孩子的。孩子的好行为应产生于他们自己的意愿和对家庭的归属感。与父母合作,做有用的贡献,应使孩子感到愉快。因为他看到自己的行为对家庭的意义,看到自己的能力能为人所欣赏,因此而带来自豪感。当我们为让孩子与我们合作就赂贿他们,表面上一次两次,家长有
Mother let the child quiet for a while, she wanted to give a friend a call, “Calm, do not talk, I’ll buy you an ice cream.” This rewarding method is handy to use, do not mind, talkative, then Very effective. Mothers use incentives to stimulate children to cooperate with her, in fact, children do not need bribes, do not need to use this exchange of ways to transform themselves into a good boy. In essence, they are children themselves. Children’s good behavior should result from their own wishes and their sense of belonging to the family. Working with your parents and making useful contributions should make your child happy. Because he sees the meaning of his actions to the family and appreciates his abilities, he brings pride. When we bribed them to get the kids to work with us, once and for all, parents