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孩子辨别是非能力低,所以往往表现出不听话,有时,家长越是叱责,孩子越不服气,越是跟他讲道理,他越吵得来劲。记得有一次,我带独生女儿和她的表弟一起上公园,路上我买了两包她特别爱吃的芒果,给了她一包,她却硬要两包,于是往弟弟手上抢。当时,跟她讲道理,她怎么也听不进,索性在马路上大哭大闹起来,弄得我束手无策。忽然,我想起了“默语”的办法,于是干脆不理她,牵着她表弟往前走,她越哭越厉害,连早晨吃的东西也吐了出来,我虽心疼,但还是没有转身理睬她,过了一会儿,大概感到妈妈不会妥协了,于是自己停住哭,不声不响地跟了上来。这时,我才心平气和地指出她
Children often have a low ability to discern, so they often show disobedience. Sometimes, the more parents blame, the less convinced their children, the more reasoning with him. I remember once, I took the only daughter and her cousin together on the park, the road I bought two packs of her favorite mango, gave her a pack, she insisted on two packs, so grabbed his brother’s hand. At that time, reason with her, how she did not listen, simply crying out on the street, making me feel helpless. Suddenly, I remembered “silent language ” approach, so I simply ignored her, holding her cousin forward, she cried more and more powerful, even the morning to eat something spit it out, though I feel bad, but Or did not turn around to ignore her, after a while, probably feel her mother will not compromise, so stop crying, quietly followed up. At this moment, I pointed out her calmly