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一个初涉世事的年轻人,怎样才能充分显示你的老练、成熟,尽快赢得同事及上司的重视与信任,以最大限度地层示你的才能和潜力呢? 下面介绍十几种具体、细微但却有效的言行方法。如果你能加以把握并恰当得体地运用,将会使你在有限的时间里获得成功。 “言”的方法 1.说话发言时先说重点——显示你头脑清晰。从心理学角度看,一般人在与人交谈、倾听对方发言时都会产生一种微妙的排斥、不耐烦心理,只不过由于各种环境、条件、理智方面的制约才使人似乎在耐心倾听。因此,说话者,尤其是初出茅庐的年轻人要想引起对方重视,先归纳出谈话的重点极为重要。比如:“今天我要讲的主要意思是……”或者“我的看法基本上有两点……”等。这样,由于一开始就给听者几个重点,听者既可看出你对该问题是有见解,也可注意地听你讲话,只要不悖主题,即使你后面的话有些不清,也会不易被注意。实际上,这是借助听者的能力加强发言者份量的方法。
How can a young man who is involved with the world fully demonstrate your skillfulness and maturity as soon as possible to win the attention and trust of his colleagues and superiors so as to maximize your ability and potential? Here are a dozen specific but subtle but nevertheless Effective words and deeds If you can be sure and properly applied properly, you will be able to succeed for a limited time. Ways to Talk 1. Focus on what you say when speaking - to show that you have a clear mind. From a psychological point of view, most people have a subtle exclusion and impatience when they talk to each other and listen to each other’s speech. However, due to various environmental, conditions and intellectual constraints, people seem to be patiently listening. Therefore, it is extremely important that the speaker, especially the fledgling young man, draw the attention of the other party and then conclude the conversation first. For example: “Today I want to say the main meaning is ...” or “I basically have two points ... ...” and so on. In this way, since the listener is given a few key points from the beginning, the listener not only can see that you have opinions on the issue, but also listen attentively to your speech as long as it is not subject to the theme, Not easy to be noticed. In fact, this is how to enhance the speaker’s weight with the help of the listener’s ability.