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每个人在考虑问题的时候,一般总是首先关心自己的利益得失,很少关注他人。如果一直这样思考问题的话,你的人际关系恐怕会越来越窄,而且这样的人很少能成为领导。历史上赫赫有名的卫青,是汉武帝刘彻的小舅子,在抗击匈奴中屡建大功,后来位高权重。但卫青始终认为取胜是将士们奋力拼杀的结果,从不居功自傲。一次,卫青大破匈奴,汉武帝刘彻又要给他加封官职,而且还要封他的三个儿子为侯,卫青坚决推辞说“:我所取得的战功,都是各校尉和士兵们奋力拼杀的结果。我目前的官职已经很大了,况且
Everyone in the consideration of the problem, the general is always concerned about their own gains and losses the first and least concerned about others. If you keep thinking this way, your relationships will probably get narrower and narrower, and such people seldom become leaders. The famous Weiqing in history is the brother-in-law of Han Wudi Liu Che, who repeatedly built great merits in the fight against the Huns and later gained a high reputation. But Wei Wei always believes that victory is the result of the soldiers who struggled to fight, never abide. Once, David Wei broke the Huns and Han Chedi Liu Cheh sealed him again. He also sealed his three sons, Hou Wei and Wei Qing, resolutely refusing to say: ”All the battles I made have been struggling with the lieutenant and soldiers As a result of the fight, my current position is already very large, besides