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对有些人来说,赠送礼物绝非易事。不仅仅是因为在有限的时间、金钱内挑选出价格合适又称心的礼物是一种挑战,还因为我们认定,包装礼物都具有一定的象征意义,况且我们本身也痴情于包装。特别是当处在复杂、冲突的关系圈,礼物就不再是个“礼物”那样简单。节日礼物可以寓意着言归于好、生气、伤害、冷漠或者讨厌(或者理解为无视我们的行为)。事实上,我们不得不承认,有时我们真拿不出合适的礼物赠送。如果接受礼物的是位自卑或消沉的人,那就有可能会误解这出于爱意的礼物。当别人对我们持有消极刻板印象时,我们的礼物也许都是不合他意的,不因为别的,仅仅因为它是你送的。我们精心挑选的礼物会被认为是无心的,昂贵的
For some people, giving presents is never easy. It is not just because of the limited amount of time and money that it is a challenge to pick the right and loving gift from money, but also because we believe the gift of packaging has a certain symbolic meaning. Moreover, we are infatuated with packaging. Especially when in a complex, conflicting relationship, the gift is no longer as simple as a gift. Holiday gifts can mean good, angry, hurtful, apathetic or annoying (or disregarding our actions). In fact, we have to admit that sometimes we really can not get the right gift. If you receive a gift from an inferiority or depression, it is possible to misunderstand this gift of love. When people hold negative stereotypes about us, our gift may not be what we want, not because of anything else, just because it was delivered. Our carefully chosen gifts are considered unintentional and expensive