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有这样一个故事:有人想买个橱柜,找到一位名气很大的中国木匠,问:“听说你的手艺很好?”中国木匠回答道:“哪里,哪里,和别人相比差多了,实在拿不出手。”那人一听愣了,便转身去找了个美国木匠。美国木匠不停地夸耀自己手艺好,于是那人最终向美国木匠买了橱柜。数天后,当他再次经过中国木匠的小店,惊讶地发现这里的橱柜比美国木匠的要好得多!他非常不解,为什么中国木匠要说自己手艺不好?几千年孔孟之道的浸染,形成了我们含蓄、内敛、宽厚、谦卑的民族性格。然而,在竞争激烈的当代社会,要求人们面对机会能勇敢、大声地说“我行”。因此,如何培养孩子自我表现的勇气和习惯,成了家庭教育的一个重要内容。
There is a story: Someone wants to buy a cupboard, find a big Chinese carpenter, and asked: “I heard your skill is good?” Chinese carpenter replied: “Where, where, and worse than others , It really can not get the shot. ”That man surprised a moment, then turned to find a American carpenter. American carpenters kept boasting of their craft, so the man eventually bought cabinets to American carpenters. A few days later, when he again passed through the Chinese carpenter’s shop, he was surprised to find that the cabinets here are much better than American carpenters. He is very puzzled why Chinese carpenters want to say that they are not good at handcraft. Our subtle, restrained, generous, humble national character. However, in a highly competitive contemporary society, people are challenged to speak bravely and “aloud” in the face of opportunities. Therefore, how to cultivate children’s self-expression of courage and habit has become an important part of family education.