别让孩子成为家长的替身

• 作 者: 金新
• 出 处: 语文新圃
• 发表日期: 2003年11期
• 关键词: 高考志愿 九流百家 兰台令史 绝然不同 诗赋 硕士研究生 张赛 洛阳太学 杭州大学 强迫状态

日前在南京师范大学召开的全国首次教育伦理学研讨会上有专家提出:“别让孩子成为家长的‘替身’。”许多家长并不是真正为孩子的前途和健康考虑,而是把孩子作为实现自己理想的“替身”,让孩子将来为自己争面子、挣大钱。孩子的肩上背负了家长太多的期望。例如,有的孩子并不喜欢学琴,但家长认为学琴可以让孩子将来出人头地,还有的家

Experts at the National Symposium on the First Education Ethics held at Nanjing Normal University recently stated: “Don’t let children become the substitutes for parents.” Many parents are not really thinking about children’s future and health, but they are using children as their realization. Your ideal “surrogate”, so that children will fight for their own face in the future, make big money. The child’s shoulder carries too much of the parents’ expectations. For example, some children don’t like to learn piano, but parents think that learning piano can make children come out in the future, and some homes