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与子女沟通的问题,的确让不少身为父母的人感到困惑和头痛,但生活中也不乏在这方面做得很出色的例子。有一次学生座谈会上,一位品学兼优的学生说:“我长大了,父母给了我一个有锁的抽屉,可渐渐地,我不上锁了,当妈妈问起何故时,我回答,我不想再锁住自己的‘心扉’了。”他又说:“其实,我也有过不愿与父母交谈的时候,常常怨恨父母扭曲了我的‘自我’,每当发生争执时,父母先是沉默,然后平心静气地说:‘我们信任你,你可以尝试按自己的想法去塑造自我,只要你有道理,可以不考虑我们的要
The problem of communicating with our children really makes many people who are parents feel confused and have a headache. However, there are also many examples in our life that have done very well in this respect. At one student symposium, one gifted and talented student said: ”When I grew up, my parents gave me a locked drawer. Gradually, I did not lock up. When Mom asked why I replied, I do not want to lock my own heart again. “He added: ” In fact, I have had too reluctant to talk to their parents, often hate their parents distorted my ’self’, whenever In the event of a dispute, parents first silence, and then calmly said: ’We trust you, you can try to shape their own ideas to self, as long as you make sense, we can not consider