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有一次,儿子因为考试没有得到双百而闷闷不乐,但却意外地发现原处于弱势的语文竟然排在全班第一。看进步是抵制消极情绪的最好途径,消极情绪又恰恰是掠走快乐的主要强盗。于是,我和儿子展开了抓“强盗”的游戏,他抓住了我,我被“消灭”了,儿子欢呼了起来。看着胜利中的儿子,我感慨不已,我们为人父母都应该努力在快乐中学会换个角度考虑问题,如何肯定自己接受自己,如何积极地暗示和鼓励孩子。家长有责任,也有需要同孩子共同营建快乐的氛围,这是孩子健康成长的需要。可是,许多家长却又不小心走进了另外的误区——把快乐高高挂在了天上。“要想长大,要想出人头地,就要做好忍受痛苦的准备”。几乎所有的大人都这样严肃地启发孩子。然而令家长遗憾的是,孩子对
Once, his son was scruffy because he did not get double exams, but unexpectedly discovered that the original language was in the worst place in the class. Seeing progress is the best way to counteract negative emotions, and negative emotions are precisely the main robbers who swept away happiness. So, my son and I started the robbery game, he caught me, I was “destroyed”, and my son cheered up. As I watched the son of victory, I felt so mixed with emotion that all of us should strive to learn from a different angle of happiness, how to affirm ourselves and how to actively encourage and encourage children. Parents have the responsibility, but also need to work together with children to create a happy atmosphere, which is the healthy growth of children’s needs. However, many parents accidentally walked into other misunderstandings - the joy of high hanging in the sky. “If you want to grow up, you have to be prepared to endure pain if you want to excel.” Almost all adults inspire children with such seriousness. However, parents regret that the children right