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退休返乡步入老年生活后,最关切的是有一个和睦的家庭。我家从纵向关系看,子女对父母、儿媳对公婆是很好的,我们老两口心里感到很愉快。可是,一个家庭还有横向关系,诸如妯娌之间,她们和睦与否也同样是老年人非常关心的事。 咱刊曾发表过一篇文章,题目是“老年苦难熬,子媳知多少”。文章列举老年人在生活中有“八怕”,其中“一怕”便是怕“骂殿”,即夫妻对骂、妯娌对骂、儿媳公婆对骂、子女之间对骂。特别是妯娌对骂,对老人心理上的伤害真是苦不堪言。
After returning from retirement into old age, what is most concerned is that there is a harmonious family. My family from a vertical relationship, the children of parents, daughter-in-law is good, my husband and I feel very happy heart. However, there is a horizontal relationship between families, such as coziness, and whether they are harmonious or not are matters of great concern to the elderly. We published an article published an article, entitled “Elderly suffering hardship, daughter how much to know.” The article lists the elderly in life have “eight afraid”, of which “a fear” is afraid of “scold the temple,” that is, the couple scolded, scolded scolded, daughter-in-law scold children, between children curse. Especially 妯 娌 on the curse, the psychological damage to the elderly really miserable.