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谈过恋爱的男女双方都会有这样一个感受,双方在经过惊心动魄、牵肠挂肚的热恋后,常会感到有段时期精神疲劳,心理上产生一种茫然和失落感:既想保持热恋中的甜美、充满激情的爱恋,但又感到与恋人交往后失落感愈来愈强,总觉得恋人似乎不那么可爱了,其魅力减少了许多,总是感觉有一种不满足又茫然不知所措的心境。恋爱者的这种心理,在心理学上称为恋爱中的“高原心理”。
Both men and women who talk about love will have such a feeling. After both parties have been struck by their soul-stirring and with trepidation, they often feel mentally tired for a period of time and mentally produce a sense of loss and loss: they want to keep their sweet, passionate, passionate Loving, but felt more and more lost after the contact with her lover, always feel lover does not seem so cute, and its charm has been reduced a lot, always feel there is a lack of satisfaction and confused mood. This psychology of lovers, in psychology called love in the “plateau psychology.”