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于丹在《论语心得》中引用一位英国心理学博士的话:这个世界上所有的爱都以聚合为最终目的,只有一种爱以分离为目的,那就是父母对孩子的爱;父母真正成功的爱,就是尽早让孩子作为一个独立的个体从你的生命中分离出去;这种分离越早,父母的教育就越成功。其实教师与学生之间,亦是如此。我所要补充的是,“作为一个独立的个体”中的独立,不单指形式上的独立,重在拥有独立的能力与心智;而独立的标准,关键在于能完成
Yu Dan quoted in the “Analects of Confucius” a British psychologist Ph.D. as saying: all the love in this world are aggregated for the ultimate goal, only one kind of love for the purpose of separation, that is, parents love their children; parents really successful Love is the early separation of your child from your life as an independent individual; the sooner you separate, the more successful your parent's education. In fact, teachers and students, as well. What I want to add is that independence in “as an independent individual” means not only formal independence but also independent ability and mind. The key to independence is to be able to complete