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下列法则告诉人们,怎样才能给别人提供他们所需要的东西。当我们遵照这些法则行事的时候,我们就能增加自己的关系账户上的财富。1.尽可能鼓励别人。你要称赞他获得的成果——即使是很小的成功。称赞如同阳光,缺少它我们就没有生长的养份。你的称赞永远都不会多余。2.你要在任何时候都让别人保留脸面。不要让任何人感到难堪,不要贬低别人,不要夸大别人的错误。3.在别人背后只说他的好话。如果你找不到什么好话说,那你就保持沉默。4.仔细观察别人,那样你就会发现他做的好事。当你表示赞许的时候,你要充分说明理由,这样你的称赞就不会有谄媚之嫌。
The following laws tell people how to provide others with what they need. As we act in accordance with these laws, we can increase the wealth on our own account. Encourage others as much as possible You have to praise what he has achieved - even with very little success. Praised as the sun, lacking it we do not grow nutrients. Your praise will never be superfluous. You have to keep people face at any time. Do not embarrass anyone, do not belittle others, do not exaggerate other people’s mistakes. In the back of others say only his good words. If you can not find anything to say, then you remain silent. 4. Look closely at others, so you will find that he is doing good. When you express your approval, you must fully explain the reasons so that your praise will not be flattering.