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因为孩子引起的夫妻不和,最普遍的原因在于夫妻之间有一些基本问题意见不一:给孩子规定什么样的纪律,允许孩子做什么,孩子在家里应有哪些权利。还有些夫妻不敢直接对自己的配偶发泄不满情绪,他们担心公开的直接发泄可能会导致婚姻破裂。在这种情况下,丈夫或妻子就会无意识地把孩子当作武器来攻击自己的配偶。那么应该如何处理这类问题呢?专家们提出了以下建议:一、必须认识到,许多矛盾是家庭生活中的常见现象,而且它是暂时的。这种矛盾最终都能化解。
The most common reason why children are not married is that there are some basic problems between husband and wife. They have different opinions: what kind of discipline should be given to children, what should children do and what rights should children have at home. Still others do not dare to vent their grievances directly against their own spouses, who fear that an open, direct vent may lead to a broken marriage. Under such circumstances, husbands and wives unconsciously use their children as weapons to attack their spouses. How to deal with such problems? The experts put forward the following suggestions: First, we must recognize that many contradictions are common phenomena in family life and that they are temporary. This conflict can eventually be resolved.