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Q我的脾气比较急躁,有时对孩子缺乏耐心。我女儿快3岁了,我发现她在发脾气时像极了我,为此我很内疚,觉得是我的言行举止影响了她,现在我比较注意了,但是有时看女儿发脾气时我还会忍不住生气,我该怎么尽快帮孩子改正呢?我倒是觉得,你首先要注意的应该是学会管理好自己的情绪。在孩子哭闹时,家长的平和、镇定有两层作用:帮助孩子冷静平复下来;给孩子一个情绪管理的好榜样。情绪源于认知。孩子闹时,家长要做到能保持平静,是基于家长对孩子有这样的认识:“她是个孩子,大脑神经尚在发育,情绪控
Q my temper more impatient, sometimes impatient children. When my daughter was almost 3 years old, I found that she was very angry when I was in my temper. I was very guilty of this and thought that my demeanor had affected her. Now I pay more attention to it, but sometimes I look at my daughter when I lose my temper Can not help but get angry, how can I help children to correct as soon as possible? I think, you should first pay attention to learn to manage their emotions. When the child is crying, the peace and calm of the parents have two functions: helping the child calm down and giving the child a good example of emotional management. Emotions come from cognition. When children are in trouble, parents should be able to maintain calmness based on their parents’ understanding of their children: ”She is a child, her brain is still developing, emotionally controlled