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从孩子一上学,家长就少不了要和老师打交道。那么在和老师谈话中,如何才能提高效率,解决问题呢? 一、确立主题,不枝不蔓与老师交谈要事先约好时间、地点和谈话的主题,即谈什么,解决什么问题,不能在交谈中信马由缰。曾有这样一个家长,见到老师后一会儿说:“这个孩子愁死人,贪玩得要命,就是不肯学习。”一会儿又说:“这孩子爱忘事,老师布置的事情回家就忘得一干二净。”过一会儿又谈起了学校的午餐的问题。谈话进行了半个小时,老师也没弄清这个家长此次校访的目的是什么。显然这个家长没有掌握交谈的要领,可能他也是有目的而来的,只是没抓住主题,话题散漫,语言拖沓繁冗,结果无功而返。如果家长能够就一个突出问题与老师深入地探讨,把细枝末节话题甩到一边,效果
As soon as the children go to school, parents have to deal with the teacher. Then in the conversation with the teacher, how can we improve efficiency and solve the problem? First, establish the theme, do not stick with the teacher to talk to the appointment of the time, place and the theme of the conversation, that is, what to talk about to solve any problem, not in Chat Zhongxinma run by the reins. Once had such a parent, after seeing the teacher for a while said: “This child worry people, greedy life, is unwilling to learn. ” And then said: “This child loves to forget things, the teacher arranged things go home Just forget about the school lunch. ” The conversation lasted half an hour, and the teacher did not find out what the purpose of this school visit was. Obviously the parents did not master the essentials of conversation, he may also come purposefully, but did not seize the theme, the topic is scattered, the language procrastination complicated, the result goes without success. If parents are able to discuss in depth with a teacher on a prominent issue, throw the minutiae topic aside, the effect