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家庭教育讲究科学性、艺术性和哲理性。在实施家庭教育过程中,要正确处理好以下四大关系: 一、“宽教”与“严教”的关系“宽教”并不是放松不管或溺爱无边,而是给孩子一个足以鱼游大海的广阔空间,有充分发挥自己想象力和创造力的自由天地,注重孩子的个性发展。“严教”不等于时时事事都严格管束,限制并紧紧地捆绑孩子。有的家长认为孩子不听话,就得打,就要训。实际体痛一时,心痛却永远。在打(骂)掉孩子反抗意识或所谓的“坏毛病”的同时,也打掉了孩子的自尊心和自信心。
Family education emphasizes scientific, artistic and philosophical. In the process of implementing family education, the following four relationships should be correctly handled: I. The relationship between “broad education” and “strict education” “Wide education” is not to relax or indulge the boundless one, but to give the children enough to swim in the sea Of the vast space, give full play to their imagination and creativity of the world, pay attention to the child’s personality development. “Severe education” does not mean that everything is strictly controlled, restraining and binding children tightly. Some parents think children disobedient, you have to fight, we must train. The actual physical pain, heartache, but forever. In the fight (curse) out of children’s sense of resistance or so-called “bad habits”, but also destroyed the child’s self-esteem and self-confidence.