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策划缘起: 婚姻如一棵树,需要我们不断地培植和精心的经营。创业容易守业难,同样适用干婚姻。亦舒说,婚姻是一个人的际遇,有就有,没有就没有,决非忍耐或修炼能够成为正果的。话虽偏激,却是自有她的道理。两个人爱了,走到一起了,且希望永远地走下去,婚姻被相爱的人真心拥戴且死心蹋地地奉献和牺牲。可是,随之人们会发现婚姻其实承载不了全部的爱的初衷。有时,不是不想留住它,而实在是无能为力了。曾经真实的爱不在了,再也不能让它枝繁叶茂,郁郁葱葱了,满地伤心的“落叶”就如爱的句号。可是这个句号能把它画圆的却是不多,它尖锐的棱角还会使疼痛继续蔓廷。因为,离开,因婚姻变得不是一件简洁、单纯的事, 爱没有了,可有财产、金钱和孩子,还有自尊。该怎样让他放手你的时侯把自己和今后的生活放得更好,这是困扰许多受婚姻伤害的女人关注的问题。
Planning origin: marriage as a tree, we need to continue to cultivate and careful management. Easy to start a business difficult, the same applies to dry marriage. Yi Shu also said that marriage is a person’s fortune, there is, there is no, no patient or practice can become positive. Although the extreme words, but it is her own truth. Two people love, come together, and hope to go forever, the marriage was really loving loved ones and heart to heart to sacrifice and sacrifice. However, people will find that marriage in fact can not bear all the original intention of love. Sometimes, not do not want to keep it, and it is really helpless. Once the true love is gone, no longer let it flourish, lush, sad ground “fallen leaves” just like the full stop of love. But this period can draw it round is not much, its sharp corners will make the pain continue to creeping. Because, leaving, because marriage is not a simple, simple things, love is gone, there may be property, money and children, as well as self-esteem. It is a matter of concern to many women who are harmed by marriage that how to make life better for themselves and for the future when they let you go.