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一次在公交车上,我见到一位带着3岁女儿的年轻妈妈,以焦急的心情和遇到的同事对话。同事问:“今天厂休,怎么还送她去托儿所?”母亲说:“不送不行啊!她在家不好好吃饭,肉不吃、菜不吃、连鸡蛋也不爱吃……”妈妈指着女儿一通数落。这时我注意看这位瘦弱的“小公主”笑咪咪地瞅着妈妈发愁的表情,表现出很得意的样子,好像心中在说:“就不吃!就不吃!”家长的这样数落,对幼儿也是一种心理上的强化,但这种强化对于年幼儿童说来,不仅不能促使孩子的行为向
Once in the bus, I met a young mother with a 3-year-old daughter and talked with my colleagues in an anxious mood. My colleague asked, “Today’s factory break, how to send her to the nursery?” The mother said: “She will not give up! She does not eat well at home, she does not eat meat, she does not even eat eggs. The daughter of a pass. At this time I pay attention to see the emaciated ”little princess“ smiled and looked at her mother worried expression, showing a very proud look, as if the heart is saying: ”do not eat! Do not eat!" Such parents , Is also a psychological strengthening of children, but this reinforcement for young children, not only can not promote the child’s behavior to