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青春期是孩子成长过程中的过渡阶段,孩子由不成熟开始过渡到成熟。这个阶段的孩子充满了矛盾冲突,渴望独立与自由,但又无法很好地约束自己,行为和想法常常脱节。这个时期的很多家庭也因此矛盾重重。给孩子立界限,可以让父母变“教育”孩子为“应对”问题。事实上,对这个阶段的孩子,单纯地教育常常显得苍白无力。立界限能让孩子在一定的范围内享受自由,但同时又不缺乏规则的约束,孩子在“责任田”里自己的事情自己做,自己的后果自己承担,既享受了想要的自由,又在界限之内合乎道德地生活,真正做到负责任地在爱中成长。和孩子立界限是青春期家庭教育的一条成功法则。
Adolescence is a transitional period in the process of child development, and children begin to transition from immature to mature. Children in this stage are full of contradictions and conflicts, desire for independence and freedom, but they are not able to restrain themselves well. Their behaviors and thoughts are often disjointed. Many families in this period are also contradictory. To set limits on children, parents can change “education ” children “response ” issue. In fact, for this stage of children, education alone often appears pale and weak. Limits allow children to enjoy the freedom within a certain range, but at the same time, they are not bound by the rules. The children do their own things in their own responsibility fields and their own consequences are borne by themselves. They enjoy the freedom they want , Living within the bounds of morality, truly responsible growth in love. Establishing boundaries with children is a rule of success in adolescent home education.