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儿子15个月,我们决定送他去托儿所。头两天,小家伙哭闹很凶。特别是第一天上午,他竟没喝一口奶、一滴水。3、4天后,看起来安静多了。经验使他知道,哭闹无济于事。他不再哭了,只是呆呆地等着我去接他。千万别小看了1岁孩子的能力,为了“跟”住妈妈,小家伙在做着怎样的努力啊!即便回家以后,在房间里玩,只要我伸手开门,他马上就扔掉手中的玩具,哭叫着跟上来。入睡前,也总是紧紧地拽着我的衣袖不放。小小的心,时时刻刻都在担忧妈妈的离去。入托引起母子分离的痛苦,使儿子恋母之情明显增强,近乎反常。
15 months son, we decided to send him to the nursery. The first two days, little guy crying fierce. Especially the first morning, he actually did not drink milk, a drop of water. After 3,4 days, it looks quiet. Experience made him aware that crying did not work. He no longer cried, just waiting for me to pick him up. Do not underestimate the ability of 1-year-old children, in order to “stay” with mom, the little guy is doing what kind of effort! Even after going home, playing in the room, as long as I reach out and open the door, he immediately throw away Toys, crying and keeping up. Before falling asleep, I always dragged my sleeve tightly. Little heart, always concerned about her mother’s departure. Into care caused separation of mother and son pain, so that the son of Oedipal affection was significantly enhanced, almost anomalous.