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不管人性本善或人性本恶,适时地使用惩罚来教育孩子是必要的。不过,由于惩罚影响孩子深远,使用时一定要有技巧。当你生气的时候,不要马上责备或处罚孩子。因为父母情绪化的惩罚,不会使孩子自我反省,只会让他们更害怕。因此,惩罚孩子前,先想一下他为什么会这样做,宁可教他们更好的方法,也不要骂他;更不要用恐吓的方法控制孩子,免得造成孩子过于依赖,或变得怕东
Regardless of human nature or human nature evil, timely use of punishment to educate children is necessary. However, due to the punitive impact on children’s far-reaching, there must be skillful use. When you’re angry, do not blame or punish your child right away. Because parents emotional punishment, will not make children self-examination, it will only make them more afraid. Therefore, before punishing a child, think about why he did so, preferring to teach them better ways and not to scold him. Nor should he use intimidating methods to control the child so as not to cause the child to become overly dependent or become afraid of the east