细节、素养与人际关系

• 作 者: 文若
• 出 处: 三月风
• 发表日期: 1997年01期
• 关键词: 买东西 人上人 告诉我 从车 人势 在路上 七八 市中心广场 胀满 道约

细节,通常因其琐细而被认为无关紧要。然而,在我们的生活中,却常可看到细节非同小可的作用:它既可以造成人际关系的紧张,也可以舒缓紧张的人际关系。乘过小公共汽车的人都知道,在固定的座位旁的窄小通道上,有一行折叠加座。可是,坐在这种座位上的乘客,无论是自己下车时还是后边的人下车时,都很少亲自动手将倚子折起来;而经过这通道的人呢,也多迈过去了事,当迈得不够利

Details, often trivial, are considered irrelevant. However, in our lives, details can often be seen as trivial: it can either create interpersonal tension or soothe nervous interpersonal relationships. People who take a small bus know that there is a row of folding seats in a narrow passageway next to a fixed seat. However, the passengers sitting in such seats rarely fold their leaning hands when they get off their vehicle or when they get off the vehicle behind them. However, people who pass this passage do so more and more, When Mai is not good enough