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在中国家训三千多年的发展中,有一篇形式独特、别开生面的家训——明代的《庭帏杂录》。一般家训是长辈撰写以教训子孙,而这篇家训,则是由袁衷、袁襄、袁裳、袁表、袁衮兄弟五人根据父亲袁参坡、母亲李氏平时对他们的训示回忆、整理而成,每人撰写一部分。这篇家训最为鲜明的特点是袁、李夫妇对儿子的教诲,不是板着面孔说教, 而是循循善诱,教勉结合,谈修身、论学问亲切朴实,教育子弟、指导做人时重言传更重身教。尤其是李氏对孩子的以身立教更是感人至深,给我们今天的家庭教育留下了一笔宝贵的遗产。
In the course of the three thousand years of Chinese parentage training, there is a unique and unique family motto - the “court complex” of the Ming Dynasty. General family motto is written by the elders to teach offspring, and this family practice, it is by Yuan Zhong, Yuan Xiang, Yuan Sang, Yuan Table, Yuan Xuan brother five people according to his father Yuan Slope, mother Lee usually memories of their instructions, Finishing, each writing a part. The most distinctive feature of this family discipline is that the teachings of Yuan and Li couples on their sons are not based on the preaching of the faces, but are based on the principles of inducement, teaching and self-cultivation, understanding and self-discipline, educating their children, Skill. In particular, Lee’s child-oriented teaching is even more touching, giving us today’s family education has left a valuable legacy.